THE MOTIVATION OF HATERATION

 THE MOTIVATION OF HATERATION

 

We have all dealt with hateration one or another. Either we have been hated on or we have been a hater. Come on, I know you don't want to admit that you have hated on someone before but we all have. For me it was in middle school when everybody and their mama was getting a Nintendo for Christmas and I got a pack of Uno Cards...yeah you girl was mad jealous! But as I got older and became more secure in myself I just never had issue with being jealous of anyone for anything. So it amazes me to see and hear about grown ass women and men that hate on each other. I mean are you that insecure with yourself at 30+ years old that you hate on people...for what? So let's get into how to deal with haters.

 

 

In order to understand the reason why haters hate, we need know the definition of a hater. A hater is one whose jealousy of another person's success or achievements makes them verbally nit-pick any flaws no matter how small or just make up flaws in order to somehow try and belittle the successful person or to make themselves feel less inadequate.
 

Don't get mad at haters for hating,keep doing you. Having haters is one way of knowing your constantly doing something right. Understand that it's in a haters spirit to hate. It's not that they hate you, but its that they hate themselves and/or their insecurities. No matter what you do or say the distaste a hater has for you will only grow over time If you continue to succeed, so push forward.

There is no point in reasoning with a hater. The painfulness of their own insecurities and inadequacies are so hard for them to face that hate is the only why they can cope and go on with their lives. You can't talk a hater out of hating. They are not ready to face their fears. Accept that you have haters. Losers don't have haters. Be proud of yourself and your accomplishments. Don't change who you are for your haters. Take care of yourself and retain your self-confidence. Don't let haters drag you down to their level and NEVER HATE BACK.

 The most simple way to deal with a hater is not to deal with them at all. They seems to always posses a negative aura around them and it may rub off on you if you're around them to long, so let a hater do their job, drink haterade!

 Jill Scott sings it best: